23 Lessons Learned Over 23 Years

Hearts break in different ways - from love, from hate, from distance, from indifference. It takes some time, and sometimes a little whiskey, but they'll always mend in the end.

There's nothing wrong with not having your life figured out at any given moment; there's nothing wrong with taking it day by day; there's nothing wrong with just living.

It's okay to find and lose and find and lose and find your faith on your own terms.

If where you live makes you miserable, move.

For the most part, people just want to be heard. Be as present as possible when someone is talking to you, especially when it's about something that's been clawing at them, something that they need to get off their chest, something that takes effort to say. Just because you're sitting next to someone doesn't mean you're really there.

It's hard to hate your body when you're in awe of what it can do for you.

If you need to make yourself feel better, do something kind and thoughtful for someone else.

You have the right to cut toxic relationships out of your life, no matter what they may be. You are not obligated to appease anyone at the sake of your own well-being and mental health.

Age is a feeling more than it is a number.

Everyone is fighting their own demons, so do your best to be kind.

Don't compare your life's trajectory to that of your peers - everyone finds success and happiness in different ways, and they come in different forms.

There are many things to be learned from our furry best friends: how to love unconditionally, how to be loyal, how to not hold grudges, how to be carefree, how to always be ready and willing to receive love.

Be generous - with your time, your money, and your love. Being selfish is easy, but it will make you bitter in the end.

Losing sleep is always worth it if it means you can be there for a friend.

Everyone has their vices. Don't feel too guilty about them if they're all that help you get through the day, just be sure to stay safe.

Sometimes, all you can do for someone is be alone with them - words and actions aren't always necessary.

Apologize when you've done or said something wrong, otherwise your stubbornness will just come back to bite you.

When you put positive energy out into the universe, it comes back to you.

You can't help anyone who doesn't want to be helped, but that doesn't mean you should never try.

Spending several days in your room watching Netflix or reading books or playing music or writing stories is perfectly okay. We recuperate in different ways - if you need to be alone, be alone. Don't let anyone guilt you into not taking time for yourself.

Don't underestimate the power of compassion.

Make sure the people you love know that you love them; it's better to be overly affectionate than overly reserved.

There's always more to learn.

happy

with the saddest smile, she said,
whatever makes you happy.